I am finally back on the blogging train! The reason for my hiatus will be revealed in an upcoming even though there isn’t much to reveal at this point as it is 🙂

With the awards season in full flow and all the fashion week and runway shows that have been going down, I have missed out on A LOT. But I’ll try to catch up on as much as I can.

So the ESSENCE Black Women In Hollywood Luncheon went down yesterday. Honestly, this is one of my favourite events as I get to see some of the hottest women in showbiz own the red carpet. A handful of familiar faces came to kill. Let’s document their looks:

Lupita Nyongo’o is a queen in her own right. She came and emphasized that in a white crop top and matching skirt number which she accessorised with a deserving sparkling head band. Love this woman!

Brandy veered towards a kimono-style jacket and matching trousers. Minimal makeup and red platform heels finished off her look. Yes!

A heavily pregnant Kerry Washington aka Olivia Pope left us her Gladiators gushing over how pretty she looked in her blue dress and tossed curls. Pregnancy does suit her.

Rocsi Diaz looked pretty in a printed dress and nude pumps.

My girl Naomie Harris ALWAYS slays. She looked serene in a white sheer inset dress and natural makeup. Pretty.

The delightful Tamera Mowry looked sweet in a orange panel colour block dress. Gorgeous!

Tatyana Ali looked pretty as ever in a colour block yellow and white jumpsuit and half up half down hairstyle.

Laila Ali looked gorge in a white top, floral skirt and peep toe heels.

Angela Bassett gave all the starlets a run for their money. She looked beautiful in a purple print pencil dress and I live for her wavy bob. I would have left out the belt tough. Fabulous mama nevertheless!

Regina King looked good in a cream belted jacquard dress topped off with bright lips. I love her nail polish 😉

Garcelle Beauvais Nylon is one beautiful lady. She looked great in orange fish tail midi dress. Her sandals did not suit the dress but she still looks fantastic.

Tasha Smith and Sharon Leal looked like stars. I want Tasha’s red wrap dress!


Salli Richardson looked great in a red floral print dress.

Spike Lee and Tonya Lewis

Who were your faves? Who missed the mark?

Stay tuned for more!

Happy weekend people.

Love & Light xx



Be a part of the world today, share a photograph.

   There are so many cool people in this world, like painters, musicians, photographers and many others, who create stuff and share it with the rest of the world. We should be thankful for what they do, as we get to have a lot of beautiful things to see, to listen or to post on Facebook.

   A few years ago on the Internet appeared some really awesome images, that seem to be taken from the space. I loved the most, the one with the North American continent. When you look at it for the first time, you may think it was taken from the satellite and that it shows the light pollution that blights America. Actually the picture it is showing the social network usage of the people who live there, it is like a map. You get to see red dots that represent Flickr pictures, blue dots, which are tweets and white for the both. The East Coast looks almost white, because there are millions of people, who take beautiful pictures, post and share them with their friends, strangers and the rest of the world. If you look at the map of New York, you get to see that Manhattan is almost white, because there are so many New York photographers or tourists with cameras that make pictures and share them, using social networks. This map is a picture that shows how common the interests of the people are.

catherine lavinia photography mark delong
catherine lavinia photography mark delong

   The 21st century has changed photography. A picture that is taken right now in Mexico can be seen by some Polish guys in Warsaw, within seconds. This is the power of technology and the desire of the photographers and regular people with cameras on their phones, to share photographs. Why do we care so much about posting pictures with almost everything that takes part in our life? It is simple, people love beautiful images that express happiness and give a sense of better representation of what is really going on. You simply cannot post a status, saying that you are eating a cupcake without adding to it a picture of the delicious treat.

 Sharing is caring and you may think that you don’t care about the others, but that’s what you really do, when you post a picture. This is the world today, the world where we take lots of photographs and we simply adore them.

catherine lavinia photography mark delong

Images: Mark DeLong Photography

When winter gets here and decides to stay, one can only device ways of staying warm while looking bright, cheery and very stylishly chic at it. Our favourite fashionistas have been spotted colouring the streets with very colourful and luxurious warm gear. Solange Knowles, Zendaya and Kim Kardashian amongst many others are all about keeping cosy in big bright coats this winter.

Fashion Pearls of Wisdom


Love this trend? Here a few high end and high street options to try:


JC DE CASTELBAJAC VINTAGE Oversize coat, £1,180.00
Fiurica oversized satin-trimmed piqué coat, MALENE BIRGER, £380
GIANLUCA CAPANNOLO ‘Pandora’ oversized coat, £626.81



For plus size statement winter coat options, try One Stop Plus and Asos:

Jessica London Wool-Blend Coat With Trapunto Stitching, £79 – £90, One Stop Plus
Roaman’s Cocoon Coat, £45 – £50, One Stop Plus
ASOS Coat With Asymmetric Colour Block, £42.50, ASOS

Statement Coats

Topshop orange coat £120 – topshop.com

Reiss blue coat £135 – reiss.com

Oasis pink coat oasis-stores.com

Jigsaw blue wool coat jigsaw-online.com

Rag Bone red coat £785 – rag-bone.com

Pink coat whistles.co.uk

Lanvin coat £1,310 – farfetch.com

Some images: Sandra Rose

Hope you love this selection!

Stay tuned for more fashionable tips and updates.

Love & Light xx


While we were celebrating the Cameroonian Youth Day yesterday, the celebs were out last night slaying on the red carpet at The Pan African Film & Arts Festival Première Of Screen Gems’ “About Last Night”. The looks were colourful, let’s get into them:

Miss Keri Baby rarely steps out for red carpet events but when she does, she makes it worth the while.She was fresh to death in a brightly coloured Ekaterina Khukhareva dress. Love everything about her look.

My girl crush, Letoya Luckett rocked it a Versace sheer bodycon neon green dress paired with metallic pumps. Hot!

Kevin Hart’s girlfriend, Eniko Parrish looked stunning in  a draped Roberto Cavalli gown. Nude pumps and makeup completed her ensemble. How pretty is this woman?!

Regina Hall looked beautiful in a black jumpsuit and a sleek ponytail.

regina hall 2014

Yaani King looked pretty in a black LBD and purple lips. J’adore.

Tracey Graves looked amazeballs in a burnt orange dress and black pumps.

Lil Mama put on some yellow leggings to offset a white blouse and ombre curls.She looks nice but the shoes kill the vibe a little.

Joy Bryant looked demure in a cream A-line skirt and vest top.

Alice Smith wore lace.

Kim Whitley looked bubbly and pretty in a black dress.

Author Phoenix White looked pretty in a laid back fit.

Brenda Vivian looked pretty in an aubergine bandage fishtail dress.

Designer Batani-Khalfani looked unique.

Krystal Harris opted for black leatherette jeggings.

Jennifer Oguzie was a hell no.

The handsome Michael Ealy looked smart in  a grey suit.

John Legend cosied up in black knitwear.

Kevin Hart was one of the bolder men in a satin burgundy coloured suit.

Who knocked it out of the park for you? Keri and Eniko Parrish look great!

have a nice evening and stay tuned!

Love & Light xx


Holla people! Hope you are having a fantabulous Wednesday. I’m in a good mood this afternoon so I’ve decided to share another amazing find. My first ever Had To Share post, got such a great response that since then I’ve been on the look out for more quirky, precious ideas that you can’t help but love.

When Ify contacted me about Bibi Invitations, I knew they were made for this post.

So what is Bibi Invitations? It is a Winnipeg, Canada based Wedding African Wedding Invitation Company and is the brain child of 3 female Nigerian entrepreneurs that made a decision to create a collection of wedding invitations that was a reflection of our bold an effervescent nature as Africans. 

Bibi invitations line of Traditional African Wedding invitations offers an incredible opportunity for brides looking to announce their traditional wedding with a low cost alternative while at the same time having the option to customize and print unlimited quantities of their invitation, when and where they choose, thus totally eliminating the last minute scramble to send invites to the 100 or so extra guests your well intentioned parents have added to your list. We also provide a social media version of your invitation to make it easy to announce your traditional wedding on facebook or email .

We are proud to introduce Cameroonian Traditional wedding invitations to our line  Traditional invitations add a touch of whimsy and playfulness to your event while at the same time boundlessly celebrates our beautiful African Culture.

The traditional wedding ceremony plays such a huge role in the African tradition. Bibi Invitations cater to providing you with heart-warming, personalised invites that sets a beautiful backdrop to your traditionally themed wedding.

I can spot Bamilke, Bafut and Bafia amongst the Cameroonian traditional wedding invitations. Which can you spot?

traditional Wedding Invitation


traditional Wedding Invitation

Fou D’Amour

traditional Wedding Invitation

Mon Ange

traditional Wedding Invitation

My Fine Baby

traditional Wedding Invitation

One Kain Love

traditional Wedding Invitation traditional Wedding Invitation

This concept is new and I must say I love it! Plus you can customize the invitations for any event. And what’s even more exciting? Bibi Invitations has a wide range of countries covered. Check out some of my favourites below:


Yori Yori

Love Me Jeje

Ada Owerri

Ade Ori Mi

Asa Nwa



Obi Ate Meso Bo

Odo Ye De Sen Sika


South African




Which invites are you in love with? I am in love the Cameroonian Traditional Engagement invite and the very elegant Nigerian ‘Yori Yori’ invite. Please visit the site for more information and prices.

**If you think you have an amazing product/idea which would make for a great Had To Share post, then by all means share! Email me at artbecomesyou@yahoo.com.

Share with your friends and family!

Love & Light xx



Happy Youth Day to all my Cameroonian readers! I miss the highly anticipated march pasts and outing days from good ol’ Saker 🙂

Speaking of youth, the new IT girl and Kenyan actress, Lupita Nyongo’o shone like a star at the Hollywood Reporter’s Annual Nominees Night Party. Just when I think I’ve seen her at her best yet, she unveils an even more flattering and breathtaking look! This time, Lupita wowed in a  Valentino Fall 2013 metallic slip dress with cross straps around the neck. red lips, diamanté sandals and silky chocolte completed her look. Suave!

Love it when she slips on her reading glasses. Geeky chic!

Do you like Lupita’s pairing?

See who else was at the party:

DJ Kiss

dj kiss red carpet 2014

Leonardo DiCaprio

Jared Leto

Karen O

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Love & Light xx


I love to dazzle in a red hot number so when I spied the Go RED for Women show this morning, I was so excited to see all the red dresses that graced the carpet for the event.

Kat Graham layered a leatherette red crop top and matching skirt on a red long sleeve cotton wool jumper. Thumbs up for brilliant layering.

Kat Graham and Victoria Justice

She later changed into a white lace dress. I am love with this.

Nene Leakes looked hot in an off-the-shoulder smoking red bow dress. I swear this woman would be a ten most of the time if it wasn’t for that lace front wig…

Adrienne Bailon loves a good cut out dress. She sizzled this time in an orange bodycon cut out dress. 

Alicia Quarles doesn’t need much to stun. Her beauty speaks for itself. She smouldered in a red v neck drape dress.

Suits boss lady, Gina Torres looked pretty in a red ruffled frock.

I loved Thea Andrews’ red peplum cascading strapless dress.

Disney princess, Anika Moni Rose looked beautiful in a red satin pleated dress.

Anna Sophia Robb looked pretty and girly in a red print dress.

Bella Thorne looked beautiful in an orange pencil dress. Her hair is so luscious!

Colbie Caillat sure does love red. Remember her 2014 Golden Globes red carpet stunner? She opted for a body hugger red silky number this time around. Hot!

Rutina Wesley showed off her athletic bod in a red stripes dress.

Sasha Cohen (OMG is she related to Borat?!) leaned towards a red velvety low neck frock. Vintage realness!

These ladies all strutted on the runway to support the American Heart Foundation. It looked like a very fun catwalk. Nene Leakes’ runway catwalk poses cracked me up. I can watch her all day. This is what went down at the show.


Jacquie Lee

Courtney Kerr

This post is great for prom dress ideas.

Who was you favourite. Nene’s dress and Kat’s white lace dress rocked my world.

Enjoy your weekend!

Love & Light xx